When you feel it's time to move

Okay, I know I just sent you all the link to this site... I moved, though, to WordPress. So the link is the same except for the domain itself: the new site is http://gracesavedme.wordpress.com/.

Thanks!

When you feel sad and figure something out

Today I worked hard again with Mom to get the work done. We got it all done! I'm so glad.

That's how I spent my day, then I came home and took an hour and a half nap. I'm awake now and I feel pretty down. The best way to describe it is that there's a figurative clenching in my chest making me want to cry.

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I found some information that I'd not read before about bipolar disorder.

from the NIMH website on bipolar disorder:

"A mild to moderate level of mania is called hypomania. Hypomania may feel good to the person who experiences it and may even be associated with good functioning and enhanced productivity. "

I didn't know that those days where I feel more productive - I've had them, when I just FINALLY feel like everything is going right - were actually part of the disease. It's not the hyperactivity that you normally hear of with bipolar. I don't do lots of shopping, or spend a lot of money, or clean furiously. I just... finally feel like I have the energy and determination (maybe determination is a better term than "energy") to do those things.

Shopping makes me anxious - but on the days I feel the hypomania, I will go to several stores (something normal for most people.)

Cleaning my house is an overwhelming task (have any of you seen the inside of my apartment? no? There's a reason for that), but on the days I feel the hypomania I can get some things done, but then I have to stop when the episode passes.

With my doctor's suggestion, I've been racking my moods. I thought that this would be PMDD, but that seems to only be a way of disguising it. Because, looking at these numbers, the depression and mania cycle daily. Yesterday was a 7, the day before a 4, the day before that a 3... today was about a 5. (0 is depressive 10 is mania).

Keep reading. I hope this helps someone out there.

When you want to start over

If you've been here before, it's possible that some posts you read are missing. I decided to start over. I think I have something valuable to contribute with a blog, and some of the posts I had didn't work to that aim.

Today was a fairly good day. I helped Mom at work {she works for American Greetings} and we finished taking down Christmas and putting up Valentine's Day. It was a lot of work but I'm proud of how much we got done, especially since she was feeling sick!

I met her at the car this morning and I wasn't in a bad mood, but I just didn't want to talk. I don't know what to do when I feel like that. I just want people to leave me alone, but how do I tell them that? And I don't just mean my family. How do I explain that sometimes I just don't want to talk? Once I woke up a little more and we got to the store and started working, I felt better.

Today was much better than the weekend, though. Maybe I'll write about that later. But...maybe I won't. No promises. :-)